9/10/93
The storms are hovering offshore, whipping the midnight surf into a
murderous frenzy that pounds relentlessly at the empty beach. Dark clouds dot
the sky, hiding the moon and the stars. That's fine with me. I don't want to
see them anyway.
I'm walking barefoot down the beach; I feel the broken shells crunch and
cut beneath my feet. I bend and pick one up, study it in the dim light. It's
one of those nice, spirally shells that you see in the gift shops, only this
one's broken in half. I hurl it out into the water, where it's swallowed up
by the angry tide. I throw a few more and watch them disappear forever.
Kurt is gone forever, too.
I want to push the thought from my mind, but I can't. It's like the part
of my mind that's in charge of bending over, picking something up, and tossing
it away has gone on autopilot, and the rest of my brain wants something
unpleasant to think about.
I think of the funeral. Funerals should be dull, ugly days that scream
pain and despair and death, but Kurt's funeral was bright and sunny -- not a
cloud in the sky. I remember the heat bearing down on me, all in black, and
all through the priest's eulogy I could only stand there, cursing the world
and the stars and the moon, and especially my long black dress and heels
(heels, for chrissakes!), and feeling like something was inside wanting to
break out, and not knowing what it was.
There were people standing all around -- some silent, some weeping, most
probably not caring at all. I remember seeing his mother, her face hidden
behind a veil, pouring her grief onto Martin's shoulder, the pretentious
bitch. Like she'd ever cared about Kurt before he died. And then, there was
Kurt himself, lying there quiet and unobtrusive, his hair neatly combed and
wearing a crisp and well-tailored suit. I remember feeling sorry for Kurt; he
never would have put up with that kind of shit if he was still alive.
And then I was standing before the casket, looking down on him; his face
was serene and peaceful, like he'd been when we'd lain here on the beach. I
wanted to reach down and hold him in my arms like I'd done a million times
before, but lying there before me he was already too far away. I didn't know
what to do, so I just sort of bowed my head and pretended that I was saying a
prayer (and I did, in a way, sort of deep down, without words). And when I
was done, I started to move away from the casket, and I saw Ellen -- Kurt's
mother -- standing there before me. I wondered if I should say something to
her, but as she moved closer, I could feel her eyes burning into me, even
through the veil. She said nothing to me, and I couldn't bring myself to
break the silence, either. I walked past without looking at her.
That bitch, I think. That goddamned bitch. Ellen and Martin -- a lush
and her corporate bigwig boyfriend. My parents aren't anything great, but at
least they're not jerks. They're probably the most normal people in the
world.
They tried to be "understanding" after the funeral. Mom made lasagna --
usually my favorite -- for dinner, and Dad tried to give me one of his talks.
I didn't eat, and I told Dad that I wasn't in the mood, and they actually let
me alone. I went to my room, shut and locked the door, and fell down on my
bed. I didn't cry. I just sat -- and listened.
Mom and Dad never learned that if they stood in the kitchen and talked,
that I could hear just about every word from my room. When I was younger, if
I was bad they would send me to my room, and I'd hear them talking about me
downstairs, about how badly I'd been spoiled, or how I should be punished, or
something else parental. Things hadn't changed, even now. As I lay on my
bed, their muffled voices floated up through the walls.
"You should talk to her about all of this," Dad was saying.
"No. She needs to be alone for a while, to sort it out for herself," Mom
replied.
"She just lost her boyfriend -- her only boyfriend. Do you think she can
handle that by herself?"
"I don't know! It's not like this sort of thing happens every day! I
just don't think we should try to pry, that's all. If she wants to talk to
us, she will."
"She won't, and it will eat her up. Think. Would we have gone to our
parents when we were her age?"
"Yes."
"Julia -- "
"I would have."
"She hasn't yet."
"Give her time! She's just come back from her boyfriend's funeral! She
doesn't want to talk!"
Mom was right. I didn't want to talk, but I didn't want to listen
anymore, either. Them going on about my life -- about me -- like it was some
heads-or-tails decision. Talk to her or not. Fuck them. I took off the
dress I was wearing, put on a long t-shirt and a pair of shredded jeans. Then
I opened the only window in my room.
There's a huge chestnut in our backyard, with thick, spreading branches
that almost reach to my window. I used to have a treehouse up there, but it
went to rot years ago, and Dad had to take it down last year. But the tree is
still there, and the branches are as strong as ever. I went out the window
and climbed down the tree, the same way I've been doing it all my life. The
way I did it when I used to meet with Kurt.
Once I was out, I had no idea where to go. It wasn't like I was going
somewhere, it was more like not being at home. I walked through the maze of
back alleys and dimly-lit streets, wondering if I could lose myself forever.
The roads I took were random, each intersection an arbitrary turn, and after
a while I wasn't even sure if I recognized the streets I was walking.
I stopped when I got to Kurt's house.
I stood there, looking at the house with its lit, shaded windows looking
back at me like slitted demon's eyes. I'd always hated that house, with its
square modern angles and its stark, smooth exterior (Kurt hadn't cared much
for it, either, but for its proximity to the beach), its perfectly-arranged
landscaping and its three-car garage. And suddenly I was shaking, thinking --
knowing -- why I'd come.
I'm still not sure what made me go at last. I remember the bitter
dryness in my mouth as I climbed the steps to the front porch, the race of my
pulse as I touched the glowing button next to the front door. Martin answered
it. He was wearing a silk bathrobe. "Yes?"
"Is Ellen here?"
"I'm sorry, but she's not in any condition to see anyone right now."
"Oh." Deep down, I heaved a sigh of relief. "I guess I'll stop by -- "
"Who is it?" It was Ellen, after all. She looked like shit. Her hair
was mussed and tangled, her makeup smudged. She was still wearing the dress
from the funeral, although she'd removed her shoes and the hat and veil.
"It's Cara, hon," called Martin.
"Karen," I corrected.
Martin didn't answer me. Ellen came to the door, sneering. I didn't
need to smell her breath to know she was stone-fucking drunk. "You little
whore," she spat. "You've got a lot of damned nerve coming here."
Martin tried to hold her back, to calm her down. "Why don't you go lie
down now," he prompted. To me, he said, "I'm sorry, but you'd better leave
now."
"You little whore! You bitch! You put him up to it! It's all your
fault!"
I sat there and took all of it. I should have told her to her face that
maybe if she'd given more attention to Kurt and less to screwing Martin that
Kurt wouldn't have taken to drink. That maybe if he'd never started in the
first place, that he wouldn't have been under the influence that night, that
if he'd been sober, he wouldn't have gone around that curve doing just over
eighty...
Instead, I left, with Ellen cursing behind me.
That's when I came out here, where I -- where we -- always came to be
alone. I realize that I've got a shell in either hand -- a shard of cowrie
and a lump of white coral. I throw them away, but have to stop myself from
picking up more with a conscious act of will. It's hard -- Ellen's in my head
now, her inebriated anger lashing out at me. No matter how I try, I can't
help but see her scornful visage, hear her caustic epithets. For a second,
just for a second, I wonder if I should just go and get myself completely
wasted. Just like Ellen. Wonder if it would make the thoughts in my head go
away.
It would probably make me a bitch like her, I think. And there was the
promise that I made to myself, long ago.
We'd just come down to the beach from Kurt's house. It was a clear
night, and calm. "Look what I got," Kurt said with glee, producing something
from his backpack. He was holding up a half-empty bottle in the moonlight.
"Shit. That's heavy stuff. You sure it's safe?"
"Yeah. I do this all the time."
"Where'd you get it?" I asked.
"My mom's cabinet. She'll probably be too shitfaced to notice it's
gone." He unscrewed the top and took a swig. "Unh -- ah," he said, wiping a
thin trail of vodka from his lips. He handed the bottle to me. The scent of
alcohol was overpowering.
I figured, what the hell? I raised the bottle to my lips and drank. It
felt like my mouth was going to explode. I wanted to spit it out, to do
anything but swallow it, but it was already draining down my throat, burning
as it went. "Shit," I gasped. "Holy shit."
"Pretty good, huh?" Kurt took the bottle back.
We went through the rest of what was in the bottle. We did it that
night, too -- more than once, guessing by the soreness the next day. I didn't
remember any of it at all.
I never drank again after that. Neither did Kurt -- at least, not when I
was around. Even though he'd never said that he had, I'd always thought he'd
decided to give it up. Maybe I was just lying to myself because I didn't want
to believe it. Maybe if I'd confronted him about it --
The tide continues its restless churning. I've read stories about
Olympic-level athletes who couldn't survive that watery gravity. I wonder if
they are true, if I rush out to greet the waiting waves, whether or not I
would outlast them.
I wonder if Kurt would be waiting on the other side.
I walk along the shore, just at the edge where the water comes before it
falls back into the ocean. The retreating surf bites at my feet; the water is
bitterly cold, not that you'd be able to tell simply by looking. The waves
have power and majesty and rhythm. With Kurt, I fancied them a sort of tidal
poetry, a symphony of land and water. Without him, it's a dirge of erosion, a
fatal siren's call.
I take a step towards the water.
I can hear the conversation taking place in my head. What's the good of
killing yourself? Do you think it's going to make people feel sorry for you?
Do you think it'll bring Kurt back?
Do I really care anymore?
I wonder how long it will take before the end comes, how long it will be
before they notice that I'm gone, how long it will be before they find me, or
if they will find me at all. The surf is up around my ankles, now, splashing
around my legs like hungry, foaming tendrils. I take a look back up the
beach, my final farewell, and that's when I see them.
I stop and look.
They're lying there, arms entwined and legs embraced, and I suddenly
think that I'm seeing a vision of me and Kurt. All at once, I remember the
press of his hand against my breasts, the tangle of his hair in my fingers,
the whisper of his breath on my face. The first time out, I'm not sure if
either of us knew what to expect, aside from all the crap we'd been fed by our
teachers and the other teenagers. But then, lying there on the sand with our
clothes lying around our shins and ankles, we were going to find out. I
remember I was trembling, but I don't know whether it was from cold or fear or
anticipation. The next thing I knew he was bearing down on my lips with his
own and I felt a sensation building up inside me and I wanted him then more
than I had ever wanted anything ever before. There was awkwardness at first,
but then came the push, and the pain and the rush and the build and the push
and the push and the --
I realize I've been walking forward the whole time, and I'm standing
there, about five feet away from them, staring at them. And then I realize
they know I'm there, and they're staring back. Coitus interruptus, I think to
myself. "What the hell are you staring at?" the guy says in a short, barking
voice. "Get the fuck out of here, you fucking pervert!"
It's like I'm paralyzed, and when at last I can move the only thing that
still works is my mouth. "Shit. Sorry."
"I don't care if you're sorry. Get the fuck out of here!"
Some other time and place, I would've said something -- anything -- to
put that bastard in his place. But all I can do is walk away, with the
bittersweet taste of memory in my head.
I walk until I can no longer see the couple on the beach. The storm is
moving closer to shore, now; the rain falls in large, heavy drops and the wind
is whipping through my hair and clothing.
Lightning cuts the sky, painting the beach in sudden clarity. It's like
staring at a flashbulb, freezing the drifting sand and the angry spray and the
looming clouds against my vision for seconds, an eternity. The thunder roars,
drowning out even the angry noise of the surf. The wind is driving needles of
cold rain into my skin. I start to run.
It's coming down hard, now; it's falling in grey, running sheets, so hard
that I can barely see five feet in front of me. The water is all around me,
now. I push blindly through the storm, back through the alleys and the
streets reverberating with the echo of the pouring rain.
Then somehow, I'm stumbling into our backyard. I'm up the old chestnut
tree in an instant, through the window and slam it shut behind me. The rain
pounds on the window, insistent. I'm about to fall onto my bed when I see
that the door to my room is open. More than open -- the hinges have been
pulled from the wall. "Jesus," I say.
" -- thought I heard something," I hear Mom say, and the sound of
footsteps hurrying up the stairs. She appears in the doorway, redfaced and
breathless. "Joel! It's Karen!" She throws her arms around me, hugging me
so tightly that I can hardly breathe. "Oh, Karen, Karen, thank God, Karen,"
she gasps.
"Where have you been?" demands Dad. "Don't you know there's a dangerous
storm out there? You could have -- "
"Oh, Joel, not now, Joel," says Mom. She's turns my head so I'm looking
at her. "We were so worried about you, hon. I came up here to see if you
wanted to eat, and when you didn't answer we thought -- "
"I broke your door down because we thought you might have done something
rash!" Dad snaps. I see him doing it, in my mind. Dad is a big man, and very
strong.
"And when you weren't there, we thought -- "
"We called the police -- !"
"Oh, God, we're so glad you're safe, honey. Don't ever do that again."
"I won't." I'm surprised at how quiet my voice is.
"Oh, God, you're shivering, Karen -- your clothes are soaked. Let me get
some blankets and hot coffee." Mom rushes off, and I realize she's right. My
clothes are plastered to my body, and the air in the house is chilly. I fold
my arms tightly around my chest.
I'm looking at Dad's feet. I remember when I was a kid, he used to tower
over me; I'm up to his chest, now. I look up, just a little, and he's looking
away, off into the corner somewhere. He's biting the inside of his lip. I
look down again before he looks back this way.
"Karen," he says, his voice soft and low. "I know this is hard for you
-- it's hard for all of us."
"How?" I ask, feeling anger welling up inside me. "How is it hard for
you? You hardly even knew Kurt! I -- I -- "
"It's hard for us because Kurt meant so much to you. Do you think we
enjoy seeing you in pain like this? Don't you think that if we could, we'd
make all the hurt and the sadness go away?"
I don't -- I can't answer him. He is standing close, now. His hands are
resting on my shoulders, but I still do not look up at him. "I wish there was
something I could do, but there's not," he continues. "It's going to take a
long time, Karen. You won't ever completely forget, but you can always
remember. Remember what good times you had together. Remember that you had
the chance to know him while he was alive, had the chance to make his life a
better one."
"Oh, God," I say out loud. "Oh, God, Daddy." And then my arms are
around him and the tears are running down my face and even though Dad doesn't
understand, he's holding me anyway.
It was about a week ago -- we were on the beach, with the thunderheads
far out at sea, dotting the horizon like dingy cotton. We were just sitting
there, me in front of Kurt and his arms around my shoulders, watching the
lightning flashing in the distance. The sky would be dark, and then suddenly,
a jagged line of white would appear across the sky, and we'd both find
ourselves breathing in awe of its electric magnificence.
"It's so beautiful," I said.
"It's a wonderful life," he whispered in my ear.
I moved away and turned to face him. "What?"
"'It's a wonderful life'. You know -- that Christmas movie that they
play every year."
"Oh, God. That piece of shit."
He laughs again. His laugh is quiet and warm. "That's what I thought,
too. You ever watched it, though?"
"No."
"Yeah, me neither -- until last Christmas. I couldn't sleep, so I went
downstairs and turned on the TV. It was a tossup between that or the 700
Club. It was actually pretty good."
"So, what's it about?"
"It's about this guy, George Bailey, and basically, his life sucks. So
he figures he should go kill himself. But then this angel shows him that if
he died, then a lot of people around him would've had crappy lives, too. It
turns out he did all this stuff for them that helped them without him even
knowing it."
"So he decides not to kill himself?"
"Yeah."
"And he goes back to having a sucky life?"
"Yeah, but all the people he helped out over the years go and help him
right back, so it's not so bad anymore."
"That's lame."
"Maybe. But what if it wasn't? What do you think you'd have done if
you'd never met me?"
I thought about it for a second, and I couldn't come up with an answer.
I told him so. "But what would you have done if you'd never met me?" I
countered.
He didn't even pause to think. "I probably would've killed myself."
And then, for absolutely no reason at all, I started crying. I don't
know how long I was there, sobbing uncontrollably, but Kurt pulled me close so
my head was resting on his chest and we sat there, saying nothing but holding
onto each other like there was no one else left in the world.
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